When my ex-husband and I agreed that a divorce was the best thing for our family, we discussed how we would stay civil throughout the process. Unfortunately, as things became more complicated, there were several heated conversations that triggered a downward spiral of negativity. That is why we decided that it would be best for us each to hire our own divorce attorney and let them do the arguing for us. After hiring the lawyers, we were able to return to the civil and almost friendly relationship that we wanted. My blog contains tips that can help you get through a divorce without all of the ugliness.